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Renay ([personal profile] renay) wrote2025-12-06 12:47 am

Rec-Cember Day #5

My partner wanted to catch up on Stranger Things so we can watch the finale. I suspect the Duffer Brothers and I are destined for a breakup after this show is over, although I do appreciate some of the book references.

Today's Rec:

Sailing With Phoenix
Over the summer, a dude started sailing solo from Oregon to Hawai'i on a sailboat with his cat. He came across my TikTok FYP randomly, about a week into his trip. He has a whole Youtube channel documenting his decision to go, leaving his job, buying the boat, prepping the boat, and then the actual journey. He's since decided to get a new boat and sail non-stop around the world, and is documenting that journey. My autistic self was immediately charmed by him. And I learned a lot about boats and sailing (I love when people get intensely into a special interest and share it with people.) He has short form content on his TikTok but I really like the longer form videos and how he builds the narrative over time on Youtube.
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unfortunate hobo ([personal profile] seventhe) wrote2025-12-05 09:16 pm

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i'm tired. i'm just... tired. more later.
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Renay ([personal profile] renay) wrote2025-12-05 01:41 am

Rec-Cember Day #4

Today I spent a few hours organizing my Friends of the Library book storage room. The way we're organizing it will never last, but it'll be a nice place to start from. I have to figure out how to offload so much 80s/90s mass market romance after a woman left us her entire collection in her estate. Lower prices? Special bag sale? I'm stumped.

Today's rec:

In today's Intergalactic Mixtape, I recced two essays I enjoyed. I will copy myself in order to a) go to bed already and b) promote the latest issue, if you're into SFF news. Here are the links; full recs are at the link above!

#1: Ann Leckie and Arkady Martine: in conversation (space opera, empire, two very clever authors being thoughtful)
#2: The Year Of The Crone (a new old bombshell has (re)entered the villa)
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Renay ([personal profile] renay) wrote2025-12-03 07:28 pm

Rec-Cember Day #3

In an effort to consider things I like outside of reading, I have expanded!

Today's Rec:

The Sam Sanders Show — Gaga’s Back, Fish Is Tinned… Is the Economy Okay?
I love Sam Sanders dearly as a journalist, critic, interviewer, and cultural commentator, so I will follow him everywhere. In this episode, there's a segment about recession indicators, and at the end one of the panelists cited Sinners. When I listened to this episode, I was like, "JAIL FOR 10,000 YEARS!", but in the end they got me and I was convinced. It's a great episode, but this segment had me rolling. The show in general is excellent and well worth a follow.
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Renay ([personal profile] renay) wrote2025-12-02 04:43 pm

Rec-Cember Day #2

Vaccines always hit me hard. I'm very jealous of people who can get them and then continue on their way with no issues. :P To make myself feel better, I bought some MTG cat tokens (this version) and some dice to use for 1/1 counters. I was also very tempted by a EDH precon for the Edge of Eternities release (ROBOTS), but I resisted (barely).

Today's Rec:

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Finder by Suzanne Palmer
First published in 2020, Finder is the first book in the Finder Chronicles, a space opera series about saving the world, but also learning to trust and care for people. The first book is a fetch quest set amidst a civil war in a rural system. Fergus Ferguson must reclaim a stolen ship with nothing but his charm, cleverness, and creativity while surviving acts of war and some weird ass aliens that regularly menance everyone for no discernable reason. This is one of my favorite space opera series and has everything I love. Emotionally stunted man on the first step of his healing journey? Check. Snarky teen sidekick? Check. Political intrigue and machinations? Check check. [redacted for spoilers] ship? Triple check. I love Fergus so much and I just want to grasp everyone's hands and plead with them to read this book (and all the other books). I want everyone to meet Fergus and see what I see about him: the collapsing singularity of his capacity to love, sealed behind trauma and self-recriminations and fear of being known, and how on this mission the people who come to value him introduce the first cracks in that shell. (The aliens help...in a weird way.)
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Renay ([personal profile] renay) wrote2025-12-02 12:25 am

Rec-Cember Day #1

[personal profile] forestofglory reminded me about December recs, so I shamelessly borrowed the name [personal profile] goodbyebird used for their recs. I'm a day late, but I haven't slept yet so technically it's still December 1. :D

Today's Rec:

Following Protocol by Astral_Insanity (The Murderbot Diaries, 20,000 words)
This is a charming, funny story about ART telling its family about SecUnit and then the incredibly pitch-perfect meet-the-family moment. Please luxuriate in the family vibes, except here the family is two human parents, an augmented human daughter, and a large spaceship with a debris deflection system/anger issues who is baby and also in love.
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just not for long, for long ⌛ ([personal profile] larissa) wrote2025-12-01 07:25 pm

2025 week 48

holiday love meme 2025
my thread here

in the continuing comedy of errors that is my body, my thumb hurts. this isn't even the thumb on the same hand as the other injury, so i guess i've been overcompensating. i've been resting and icing it all day and am hoping it will settle down on its own... i really don't want to deal with more hand pain than i've already got.

thanksgiving was nice; i got to see some family i hadn't seen in a long while, so it was good to catch up. (also i had some excellent pumpkin cheesecake.) other than that, there hasn't been a lot going on in irl news.

this week's ff14 update is that i'm pretty much done farming mogtomes aside from weeklies, so it's been back to the diadem. i am nearly done grade 3 botany, at which point it will be on to grade 3 mining. then i'm home free. (i am not even remotely home free; i still have 200k+ points to get in both botanist and miner.) other than that i've been working on the crafting portion of the ishgard restoration grind; i really should be working on the moon crafts as well but i haven't caught a lot of weather windows for it lately.

in reading news, i did not end up continuing the trilogy i was struggling with. instead i read a quick, lighthearted sci-fi romp, and have since started a space opera, bethany jacobs's kindom trilogy. i'm only halfway through the first book, but if it sticks the landing it's definitely going to be a favorite: excellent writing, characters, and plotting in a genuinely fascinating worldbuild. the characters are really what's selling it more than anything; one of the leads is refreshingly unlikeable and makes for a great character to follow.

that's about it for now. i really hope my body chills out in the coming weeks, because i am so over all this pain...

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thisbluespirit ([personal profile] thisbluespirit) wrote2025-12-01 10:40 am

Fly by rec

My wrangling got slightly derailed this morning, because I was scrolling down my bins and then suddenly a WILD TAG IN ENIGMA 2001!

And it wasn't me misreading, it wasn't some giant multi-fandom essay, or somehow ASOIAF, Harry Potter, Sherlock or Star Wars, it was real and pretty much perfect. Not particularly spoilery (the only thing this reveals is also evident pretty soon into the film):

de la lune (273 words) by misura
Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: Enigma (2001)
Rating: General Audiences
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Characters: Claire Romilly, Wigram (Enigma 2001)
Additional Tags: Pre-Canon
Summary: "I've always wanted to be a Claire." (pre-canon)

I got too flaily to wrangle.
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thisbluespirit ([personal profile] thisbluespirit) wrote2025-11-29 06:47 pm

Unofficial Fandom 50: Terence Rattigan [3/50]

Since I've been trying to watch (or listen to) all of the Rattigans lately, this seems like a good topic for a post!

Who was Rattigan?

Terence Rattigan (1911-1977) was an English playwright and screenwriter, whose most famous works are The Browning Version (1948), The Winslow Boy (1946), The Deep Blue Sea (1952) & Separate Tables (1954). His works are usually sharply observed, low-key character pieces, mostly v middle-class background*, one of a combination of factors that caused him to fall from favour in the wake of Osborne's Look Back in Anger in the 50s. He wrote for (low-brow!) cinema, radio and TV too, another factor. Since the 90s in particular he's been recognised as one of the 20th C greats, via several major revivals of many of his works and you'd be hard pressed to find a year now when some major British theatre or other isn't putting on a Rattigan.

He was gay, which is evident in many of his plays, although usually more implicitly than explicitly - the most explicit use of a gay character, in Separate Tables, he censored himself prior to its Broadway performance. From 1998, though, happily, modern productions have usually restored the original version. The Browning Version isn't explicit, but is very much about queerness, too.

I came across him when my teacher gave us The Browning Version for A-Level, and instantly fell in love, even if it took me thirty-odd years to finally get up and try some of the rest of his plays. I think I was worried that they wouldn't be as good or would contain aspects that might spoil TBV for me - happily, as you can see, I needn't have worried!


What do I love about his works?

He's very much all about character pieces, especially small-scale, claustrophobic ones (which the theatre naturally tends towards), in a way that I really love.

His first success was the farce French Without Tears (1936), so between that and the screen-writing, he's a very easy watch, in the best sense - his dialogue says so much about character, and often still feels fresh, and he can do light comedy as well as the more serious pieces. You'll often find variations on mismatched marriages, moral choices, people from different positions finding understanding of each other, and trial by the media in one form or another. His characterisation is always well-rounded and complex.

The thing I love the most, though, is his characteristic trick of having so much of the mood or conclusion or character shift on a literal sixpence - one small item, or action, or change of point of view leads to an uplift of hope we didn't expect - and on rare occasions, the reverse, acting as the last spiteful straw. The gift of a book, the discovery of a letter, love of art - how big small things can be to us humans.

I'll talk about specific plays if I carry on with this meme, I'm sure, but I definitely think he's worth trying out if you haven't already. There are a range of adaptations around, new and old, (TV, film, Radio, some of which he wrote the screenplays for himself), as well as current theatre productions.

The National Theatre has a really nice little two-part intro to five of his major works (spoilery, though, as ever with these things) - I presume this means they have some Rattigans on their At Home service, too. If you wanted to try a live production, The Winslow Boy or The Browning Version are particularly good starting places.

(Warnings - not many! He's not a bleak writer at all as a rule, but suicide does crop up in various ways in After the Dance, The Deep Blue Sea, Cause Celebre, and Man and Boy; and In Praise of Love has a character with a terminal illness - leukaemia, which he had himself).

The last thing of his I watched was Heart to Heart, a 1962 BBC TV screenplay written to launch one of their anthologies - it deals again with mismatched marriages, trial by the media, and an attempt to do the right thing that isn't very successful, but at the end, the main character, learning that out of nearly 300 people who phoned into the TV station after a broadcast, 3 of them got the point: "That's something," he says. "They must be very interesting people."

How very Rattigan. ♥



* He attended Harrow, although wiki, if it is to be believed, says that while he was there, he was in its Officer Training Course and started a mutiny, which is brilliant if it's true. <3
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Kate ([personal profile] julian) wrote2025-11-27 08:47 pm

Welp!

This is a Long Post because I have Thoughts, but the short version is, "Hey, my mom had a stroke, and isn't just sedated to the gills! Though she is that, too."

Less telegraphic version: My mom (who just turned 86!) has progressed, in her dementia, from anxious and logical to anxious and tangential, in both technical and non-technical senses. That is to say, to people who don't know her, it seems as if she says basically random stuff, whereas to people who know her, it's clear she's saying stuff that has connections in her brain but she doesn't seem to recognize that she needs to provide the connective tissue to make it explicable to people outside herself.

Mostly, up until now, if she's not tired, she's quite audible and quite understandable. When tired, she gets a little blurry, but not *very*. (Also, and this is irrelevant except for med issues, she gets delusions. All of which are quite harmless, so far, and seem to mostly involve expecting visitors for dinner and the like. My dad says there's like, consistent expectations/background to this, and things.)

She and my dad are both very wary of assisted living and don't want anything to do with it, in part because of a friend of theirs who they felt had basically been stuck into a facility by her daughter. (Mind you, this friend had dementia and kept falling down, so, warranted.)

My mom's also wandering, or, rather, taking walks and then getting lost in her own neighborhood, which isn't *quite* the same thing, but kind of similar. One can ask why my dad lets her do that, to which the answer is, he sometimes needs to pay a bill or something and she gets impatient. She otherwise seems to not have many interests -- she's not reading much (or, I suppose, able to read), she's not watching movies, she's not... doing things. Other than taking walks.

So the point is, yesterday, she was taking her third walk of the day, alone, and someone called 911 because she was apparently walking in the middle of High St, aka, a very busy street with a *lot* of rush hour traffic. (When I heard this I had an actual chill run down my actual spine. Things that happen in real life! Who knew!) A police officer stopped by, and she was apparently combative and/or belligerent, so he brought her to the hospital. (The same one I volunteered at when I was a teenager, let us timewarp now.) It seemed odd to me that since she was *registered* as a wanderer, he'd take her to the hospital rather than home, but there's a few possibilities, some of which are stroke-related, some of which are dementia-related.

More details about various visits. )

Anyway, so, clearly, what we need to do is get her into a rehab facility and get the support system set up for getting her back home, hopefully. We've got a "light housekeeping" person coming in starting about a week from now, and I can call some nursing folks her doctor recommended, so, we have Planz.

In more emotional aspects of stuff, this now starts another kind of slippery slope toward possibilities like pneumonia and other things. And I don't want my mom to *die*, but on the other hand she's been telling my dad she's unhappy and doesn't want to exist anymore (though doesn't have any kind of inclination to kill herself), so I mean. If this starts that faster downhill slope, I'll be *sad*, but I'm not going to cling if she's wanting to slowly go that direction. Just. I'll be sad. I *am* sad. Sadness is.